Beginnings

We have many beginnings in life.   One path closes and it's up to us to open another door and step through. I believe the beginning that led to my purpose in life happened nine years ago when I married for the first time and became a mother.  I've learned a lot from my daugher and believe that my relationship with her has led to the person I am today.

Before Lauren, my life was all about me and had been for 42 years.  At times, it was difficult to let my selfishness go and put her first, however, I always tried to consider her feelings by letting her feel included.  It wasn't just me and her dad; it was us as a family.  When I look back on the past few years, I believe I've learned more from her than any educational, work or life experiences I've had. 

She isn't perfect but then none of us are.  There have been many trials along the way, but I'm very proud of how she's handled them and admire the person she has become. People are often surprised at how close we are, and I guess that's because "steps" aren't supposed to have close relationships.

Lauren has become a beautiful, intelligent, funny and delightful 23-year-old woman, and I'm thrilled to be part of her life.  She is truly someone I look up to.