A Road Less Traveled

At the ripe ol' age of 30, I decided to finish my college education and enrolled at The University of Alabama. This non-traditional student decided that instead of taking the easy route in fulfilling my foreign language requirement that I would take the road less traveled. Then again, this isn't unusual because I'm not known to take the "normal" route in life.

The language I chose was Russian, and after fulfilling my requirement, I decided to minor in this language. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made.

Russian is a difficult languge to learn. I wasn't the best or most fluent, but I truly loved those classes. It showed me that I can do anything I really want to do. I dove into it and even spent time with the Russian students at the University. This was a true learning experience.

Most often we hear about the hard side of Russian personalities. They do typically have a more difficult life than we do in the United States, however, they are very generous and unselfish people. These students couldn't believe how many choices we have in grocery stores, etc. And I was humbled when I found out how disappointed they were in our Christmas celebration.

They thought because of all the decorations and presents being purchased it would be a huge celebration of family. After all, they do this in Russia with much less commercialism. For them Christmas is about family and reminiscing.

Another thing that surprised me is how giving they are. If you visited their home, and they only had one potato left, they'd insist you eat it. Also, never refuse a gift. They give from their heart and are insulted if you don't receive.

I almost went to Russia on the exchange student program but something told me not to go. In the end, it was also the best decision for me, but I've never forgotten those students or the professors who taught me.

Sometimes lessons in life can come from some of the most unusual places and people. Through this minor, I learned people are not always what they seem and to keep an open mind about people with different backgrounds from mine.

After all, we can always learn from each other. To my old Russian friends I say thank you.